If life seems unfair to you, then that is exactly what you will experience. If life seems like an adventure, then that is also exactly what you will experience. This is your choice entirely.
If you have ever had the pleasure of listening to the tales of a sailor you will realise very quickly that they frequently risk their life to one of the biggest powers on the planet - the vast bodies of water that surround us all. That doesn't stop them from their love of sailing, it draws them towards the adventure of feeling alive and capable of whatever obstacles they encounter.
Approach your life like a sailor, enjoy the calm, the storm and the aftermath, it's all part of the adventure.